I experienced something this week that has kind of been off putting and I felt I had to share it. I work at a job where I get a chance to work with school kids and their teachers. We take a day and have fun with them and hopefully help change the vibe in the school to be more positive. It is a great program and I have a lot of fun. I was a t a school recently that the kids were great kids. What I mean by this is they had a lot of potential. Unfortunately, they also seemed very half-heartedly going through their lives at school.
There is a time in the day when one of the members of our team goes in the hall with the teachers and asks them what the issues seem to be at school. Most of the time we get the same old thing; teasing, clicks, roughhousing and the like. This particular school’s teachers couldn’t seem to find anything wrong with the kids. They said they had a great class and nothing really seemed to be going on between them. Well I can tell you that within the first hour of us being there, I could tell there were issues. There was an obvious boy click that most of the kids looked at for direction. Basically everything we asked the kids to do, they wouldn’t REALLY get into it until these boys did. Second, there was a TON of teasing going down. Also, a number of kids seemed to be excluded from the main part of the group of kids.
You see, the teachers ,most of the time anyway, sit in with us and participate with us and have a good time. With these teachers, it was like pulling teeth to get them to come in the room and recieve applause from the kids. There is one point in the day when they KNEW we wanted them to be “the heroes” and participate in an activity to win the school recognition. They made it a frickin’ POINT to be nowhere to be found at that moment in the day. Now, you tell me, are these teachers connecting at all with their kids? I don’t think so. It really was no wonder they thought this class was awesome…they never pay attention to them!! It was really sad.
It got me thinking, though. I looked back and found that classes where the teacher wasn’t really “present” in the classroom I did horrible in. I had a hard time caring about what was going on. Unfortunately, I saw that on the faces of all of those kids. I think if you are going to teach, you need to have a certain knack for wanting to be arounds kids an AWFUL lot. You have to give more than most people. I know the pay isn’t there for it. I think like acting you have to do it for the love of it, not for the money. I have met some astoundingly great teachers. They really made me happy. It is HARD work and they don’t get enough credit for it. AARRRGH!! I wonder if anyone else has had a similar experience with a teacher…